Monday, February 5, 2024

On being deceived

 Hello there friends. It is good to be with you all here on the Bearrie blog this evening.

Recently it has struck me how critical long form writing is to refining my thinking and I realized that I have done very little of that since college. So I reformatted zachholub.com and decided to start writing more formal essays from time to time on there. This first one is related to religion and faith so I am cross posting here. This is a topic that's been on my mind the last couple months and I wanted to organize it into a small essay. Would love to hear your thoughts. Here's the link in case you'd like to read it on my BLOG: https://zachholub.com/2023/12/04/on-being-deceived/


On being deceived

In Matthew 24, the disciples come to Jesus and ask “what is the sign of thy coming, and of the end of the world, or the destruction of the wicked, which is the end of the world?” (Matt. 24:4). The Savior answers, “Take heed that no man deceive you” (Matt 24:5).

This is a fascinating response for at least two reasons. The first is that it doesn’t really answer the exact question that the disciples asked. Instead, Jesus gives a direct mandate — presumably useful counsel related to the time period in question. But the second reason is what I would like to focus on here. In response to the original question, Christ could have said many things, “take heed that ye control your emotions”, or “that ye read the scriptures”, or “that ye love one another”. But that was not the response. He instead focused solely on the principle of deception. This chapter goes on to repeat several times how false Christs shall deceive many and “if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect” (Matt. 24:24). Why is that the counsel? What are we to learn from this?

The notion of sin in connection with being deceived is prevalent in the scriptures but represents, perhaps, a departure from how we generally speak about sin modernly. In current church culture we often use expressions like “falling into sin” or “giving in to temptation” — phrases which support the idea that sin is something that occurs when our faith, effort, or power is not strong enough to align our actions with our beliefs. These are scenarios where “the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak” (Matt. 26:41) and often lead to the kinds of decisions that we make and then shortly after regret. I refer to this kind of temptation as willpower temptation.

If willpower temptation is characterized by scenarios where our actions do not align with our beliefs, another kind of temptation occurs when our actions do align with our beliefs but our beliefs are simply incorrect. In this case, we haven’t lacked faith or strength to do or not do something, we simply have formed a doctrinal belief which is incorrect. We have gotten something wrong. I refer to this kind of temptation as rational temptation. The idea of falling into rational temptation — sin resulting from incorrect beliefs — is what I believe is meant by the scriptural concept of deception. This idea of rational temptation or the doctrine of deception, is a topic that I find to be insightful, relevant, and perhaps underserved in modern church culture.

The scriptures are replete with instances of prophets and apostles exhorting us to “Be not deceived” (Gal. 6:7) and examples of people being deceived that we can learn from. One such example illustrates this well when describing Laman and Lemuel:

“for behold they did murmur in many things against their father, because he was a visionary man, and had led them out of the land of Jerusalem, to leave the land of their inheritance, and their gold, and their silver, and their precious things, to perish in the wilderness. And this they said he had done because of the foolish imaginations of his heart.

“And thus Laman and Lemuel, being the eldest, did murmur against their father. And they did murmur because they knew not the dealings of that God who had created them.

“Neither did they believe that Jerusalem, that great city, could be destroyed according to the words of the prophets” (1 Ne. 2:11-13).

Laman and Lemuel make a few assertions here that end up being incorrect. The easiest to spot is that they fail to believe the words of the prophets that Jerusalem can be destroyed. The Babylonian siege of Jerusalem is a well documented historical event that happened shortly after the departure of Lehi and his family from Jerusalem. The city was dismantled and the inhabitants killed as it was prophesied by their father that “it should be destroyed, and the inhabitants thereof; many should perish by the sword, and many should be carried away captive into Babylon” (1 Ne. 1:13). The belief that Babylon could not be destroyed was simply untrue. Laman and Lemuel got this wrong. They also believed that they were leaving “to perish in the wilderness”. Ironically, this is another belief that turned out to be incorrect as they would make it through the wilderness alive, to the land of promise, and live for several years thereafter.

Interestingly, their argument takes on new shape later on in the Book of Mormon. Instead of arguing that the city of Jerusalem could not be destroyed, they argue that it would not be destroyed because “we know that the people who were in the land of Jerusalem were a righteous people; for they kept the statutes and judgments of the Lord, and all his commandments, according to the law of Moses; wherefore, we know that they are a righteous people” (1 Ne. 17:22). It is instructive not only that their argument changes but that this newer version also proves to be untrue. If we know that Jerusalem was destroyed and we believe Nephi to be a prophet, then we know that “Jerusalem [was] destroyed, because of the wickedness of the people. For behold, they have rejected the words of the prophets” (1 Ne. 3:17-18).

The point of all this is that Laman and Lemuel were deceived. They managed to form beliefs that were incorrect and — without the incessant pleading of their other family members — would have led to them returning to Jerusalem and facing serious, life-altering consequences.

What else do they get wrong? When Laman and Lemuel talk in this passage about leaving “the land of their inheritance, and their gold, and their silver, and their precious things” there is an assumption here that they would have found greater happiness with these material items. Later on in the Book of Mormon this is made clear “Behold, these many years we have suffered in the wilderness, which time we might have enjoyed our possessions and the land of our inheritance; yea, and we might have been happy” (1 Ne. 17:21).

This instance of deception is a little more subtle and perhaps more sinister as its a little tougher to identify the lie here. Laman and Lemuel believed that living in Jerusalem with their silver and gold would bring them happiness. However, if we believe in the Lord’s plan of happiness, we know that silver and gold are not the foundational basis of long term happiness and fulfillment; but that’s not all they are saying here. Embedded in these statements is the general belief that they can avoid the struggles at present and find greater happiness by not following the prophet’s guidance. They believe that they can be happier by living a life not in congruence with the commandments of God.

This is a critical belief that continually makes a massive impact in their lives. It’s one that also drastically impacts the lives of many others throughout history and today. Interestingly, if we look at Laman and Lemuel’s journey up until this point, it makes a lot of sense how they could arrive at this conclusion. They have been suffering quite a bit in the wilderness — food is scarce and hunger likely on their minds constantly, fire has been restricted, they are traveling in the hot desert, and they are living in tents and raising a family in all these conditions. Furthermore, they have a perfectly good home not far away that is filled with earthly comforts and it is likely near to friends and activities and things they enjoy. Why should they be here? Why should they do all this?

The Lord commanded Lehi that they should take this journey: “the Lord commanded my father, even in a dream, that he should take his family and depart into the wilderness” (1 Ne. 2:2). The scriptures are clear that going against the commandments of God is antithetical to happiness because “blessed and happy [is the] state of those that keep the commandments of God” (Mos. 2:41) and “wickedness never was happiness” (Alma 41:10). If we believe in the gospel then we know that the best way to achieve maximal happiness is by following the commandments of the Lord; but it can take a lot of mental fortitude and faith to believe in this principle when the present state is difficult. It is hard for Laman and Lemuel, and likely would be for any of us, to believe that the Lord’s commandments will bring us the best and greatest happiness we can achieve when following them so far has led to starvation in the desert while sacrificing nearly all the comforts of a previously well-loved life.

I believe that what happened to Laman and Lemuel is a common sequence of events that can happen to us. Namely, it is the idea that giving into willpower temptation eventually leads to giving in to rational temptation. In this case, following the commandment of the Lord to leave their lives in Jerusalem and follow their family into the wilderness was hard. It brought hardships and suffering along the way. Willpower temptation tries their strength to keep God’s commands in the midst of these struggles but importantly, they never argue to go back to Jerusalem for the reason that they lack the strength to follow these commandments from God. They don’t ever argue against Nephi or Lehi saying that they know that God commanded them to do this but they just can’t do it and so they want to go home. Instead they fall into rational temptation and argue the validity of the commandments themselves. As we have seen previously these arguments take on different angles and premises and change from time to time but all of them serve to undermine the divinity of the command to “depart into the wilderness” (1 Ne. 2:2).

Do we not also do this from time to time? When a commandment gets very hard to live and we are tired of struggling or failing, we begin to look for loopholes as to why this commandment might not apply to us or why it’s not actually that important or why the person who said it might not be a real prophet, etc. I think that we as humans don’t like to struggle and we don’t like to fail. For instance, someone may become frustrated with the struggles and consequences that come with keeping the Lord’s law of chastity and begin to rationalize why this commandment does not apply to them. Another person may find themselves breaking the law of chastity repeatedly, grow weary of the guilt they feel, and then conclude that this law is an antiquated commandment not relevant to our day. In both cases, there is a moving of the goalposts where the Lord’s truth has been subverted by rational temptation and belief has actually changed.

Getting our beliefs right is critically important because if our beliefs are correct, the correct actions will eventually follow as we continually exercise faith in Christ and repent. But if our beliefs are wrong you will never get correct actions. Because of this, I wonder if the Lord is more concerned with us learning and believing true doctrine and then striving to live it than He is with us actually hitting those benchmarks perfectly. Consider this quote from Hugh Nibley:

“Who is righteous? Anyone who is repenting. No matter how bad he has been, if he is repenting he is a righteous man. There is hope for him. And no matter how good he has been all his life, if he is not repenting, he is a wicked man. The difference is which way you are facing. The man on the top of the stairs facing down is much worse off than the man on the bottom step who is facing up. The direction we are facing, that is repentance; and that is what determines whether we are good or bad” (Hugh Nibley, Approaching Zion, pg. 301-302).

If we have correct beliefs we can be struggling to keep commandments but still be righteous because we can repent. But if we have incorrect beliefs, we are no longer facing the right way and we cannot repent. I think the Lord would much rather see us continually fall into willpower temptation, admit that we have sinned but continually repent and strive to achieve the standard that He has set than to fall into rational temptation and adjust, reject, or dilute His standard.

I think that is also why Satan works so hard to deceive us and get us to fall into rational temptation — more so than perhaps anything else. In fact, of all the descriptions of Satan, it is possible he is associated with deception more than any other attribute:

“[T]he Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world” (Rev. 12:9).

“And he became Satan, yea, even the devil, the father of all lies, to deceive and to blind men, and to lead them captive at his will” (Moses 4:3–4).

Not being deceived — establishing correct beliefs based on truth — is essential to our salvation.

“And the angel spake unto me, saying: These last records… shall establish the truth of the first, which are of the twelve apostles of the Lamb, and shall make known the plain and precious things which have been taken away from them; and shall make known… that the Lamb of God is the Son of the Eternal Father, and the Savior of the world; and that all men must come unto him, or they cannot be saved.

“And they must come according to the words which shall be established by the mouth of the Lamb” (1 Ne. 13:39-40).

In many ways, one of the main purposes of the restoration of the gospel was to allow us to have a full knowledge of how to come unto the Savior. It allows us to learn “the true points of [His] doctrine” (3 Ne. 21:6) and to come unto Him — not in our own way but — in His way “according to the words which shall be established by the mouth of the Lamb”.

Let us stay close to God and His prophets so that we can learn truth and form correct beliefs. Sometimes the belief that is the hardest to get right is the truth that God can help us, that He is mighty to save, and that His power can lift us up out of anything. He is there to help us, strengthen us, and forgive us, even when we are too weak to keep His commandments on our own. Being alive today requires a commitment to truth and the ability to discern and not be deceived. As we strive to stay close to God and keep the spirit with us, we can take heart in the gospel promise that:

“they that are wise and have received the truth, and have taken the Holy Spirit for their guide, and have not been deceived—verily I say unto you, they shall not be hewn down and cast into the fire, but shall abide the day” (D&C 45:57).

Thursday, May 4, 2023

"With gratitude, optimism is sustainable."

 "With gratitude, optimism is sustainable."




This was really cool! I saw a snippet of it posted on social and then tracked down the whole piece. Michael J. Fox is a rad dude. I really like the closing line he signs off with - “With gratitude, optimism is sustainable.”

My Grandpa actually died of Parkinsons, so this obviously reminded me of him… I miss that guy! It’s cool the work that MJF’s foundation has done to identify Parkinson’s earlier and try to track down a cure. Amazing really. 

These degenerative diseases take a lot... and they keep taking. Just non-stop until there is nothing left. I will always remember what Madison's dad would say in the middle of his struggle with ALS - "TODAY is my best day, I'm going to make the most of it." I think that is a powerful mindset to always assume that today is your best day and be grateful for everything you get to experience. 

Anyways, the clip is worth a watch for sure! Enjoy!

Thursday, March 30, 2023

OPENING DAY & CLEAN SLATES





I LOVE opening day. I always say, "New Year's day, my birthday, and the start of a new baseball season  are my favorite three days of the year." And that is because they each mark a fresh start. All these days, a new beginning is celebrated, and a sense of renewal and potential for greatness is just THICK in the air. You can feel it somehow!

Baseball fans across the world today are greeting the start of the season with the same sense of optimism and excitement, celebrating the possibility of the unknown. "This is our year!" Ugh, feels so good to say it and to actually believe it!

I don't have to think about the horrible record my team had last year... cause that was SO last year! That is the old way we played ball... this year is going to be different for SURE. We can look forward, with a clean slate, and just WIN ballgames. Such a powerful mindset.

When I think about the source of this awesome feeling, I have to go back to Christ. I really believe in the power of Jesus Christ, who is ever-present and can help us achieve greatness. Just like Opening Day, Christ’s grace brings us the opportunity for renewal and potential for greatness. He offers us a blank slate and the potential for a new beginning no matter where we’ve been. We just need to lean into it. And the cool thing about His grace is that we can use it EVERY day... we don't have to wait through a whole 162-game season before we try to reset the record. 

As we celebrate the new baseball season, let us remember to seek Christ and the potential for greatness that He offers. 

PS - I am pretty sure Jesus is a Cubs fan, so that even further increases our chances this year! #gocubsgo

Tuesday, March 14, 2023

A Widget and a Withered Hand

 


First of all, this is wild - there is a human out there with the name Barrie Devo. WHAT? 🤯

Second, I just saw that the last post was over a year ago... so let's hope this isn't the "annual devo post". haha

I think I’ve shared with a few of yall personally. But the “scripture of the day” widget has changed my scripture study habits the last few months since I added it. It’s all synced up with Come Follow Me and the weekly lessons, and I’ve honestly been able to get into the scriptures pretty much every day since I’ve added it. Which was not the case for a long time. My scripture study has a loootttt of room for improvement still, but at least I am engaging with ancient text regularly now. 

ANYWAY, I wanted to share today’s set of scripture - 

Matthew 12

10 And, behold, there was a man which had his hand withered. And they asked him, saying, Is it lawful to heal on the sabbath days? that they might accuse him.

11 And he said unto them, What man shall there be among you, that shall have one sheep, and if it fall into a pit on the sabbath day, will he not lay hold on it, and lift it out?

12 How much then is a man better than a sheep? Wherefore it is lawful to do well on the sabbath days.

13 Then saith he to the man, Stretch forth thine hand. And he stretched it forth; and it was restored whole, like as the other.

Not sure if everyone on here knows, but 1.) Madison and I just had our 3rd son - River Jonas Hofman and 2.) he was born with a "cleft hand" - he has a fused thumb and pointer finger, missing the middle and ring finger, and a LONNNNG pinky haha (actually it is probably normal length, but looks long when you don't have the middle fingers haha

Here is a picture of his fist - that is the pinky closed over his other digits:

Here is a look at the other fingers:


Of course, I know this bible story, but it for sure hit different this time around now that I have a child with a “withered hand” and have a much clearer understanding of what this miracle would mean for this man, his family, and all of those who knew him. What a life boost. 

And it just reconfirmed to me how much I love Jesus. This guy spent his time hanging out with people that felt different, that hurt, and that were bullied. And that is, I think, my favorite Christlike attribute. He hung out with those that needed His extra boost. 

And this time around I felt the rebuke he gave to the Sadducees less of a “sabbath day letter of the law” thing, and more of a “the worth of souls is great” lesson. We are worth way more than sheep!! Haha 

We ALL have infinite worth, and we need to look past the weird things people do, the “sinful” behavior of others, the “uncleanliness” or stinky clothes, and just see HUMANS. Everyone is out here struggling and we need to do what we can to help them… and trust they’ll do what they can to help us. 

It was just a beautiful set of scripture. And I’m glad I had the widget to get me there. I highly recommend installing it. 

The End.


Postscript:

If you are interested in HOW to get the widget - here is a screen recording (it may not work haha, text me if you're curious. lol):





Monday, February 14, 2022

Rejection Therapy

 Hey all! 

So, Zach and I were chatting late into the night… we started talking about how our missions were such a powerful experiment in dealing with rejection for us. For two years, all day every day, nobody really liked us. 99.99% of the people we engaged wanted nothing to do with us. We were complete outcasts. Just weirdos with name tags walking around trying to talk to people in a language we couldn’t actually speak. It’s hilarious thinking about how much of a joke it really was. But honestly, it taught me SO much when it comes to dealing with rejection… and just implanted a cool resilience inside of me. 


Of course, I still am afraid of failure. Of course, I still want to be loved and accepted. Of course, I still fear rejection. But not as much. 


Zach sent me this Ted Talk of a dude that sought out rejection for 100 days straight (his own little mission, if you will). He would go up to strangers and ask to borrow $100 or ask for a “burger refill” after finishing his food. Just like WEIRD STUFF. But he learned a TON along the way about how to manage his fears (and he tried so many things, also learned a ton about how to turn the rejection around and actually get what he wanted haha). I thought it was a fun conversation with Zach, and a cool TEDTalk, so I figured I would share. If you have a few minutes, give it a listen and maybe try out some rejection therapy… you know, just to feel something haha



Monday, April 5, 2021

JUST WATCH IT





Okay, I know I have talked to a few Bearries about this... but it should be required Bearries homework wot watch this whole series!  You guys, it's so good. I know, you're probably rolling your eyes... cool Cees... a show about Jesus. Whatever. BUT I AM SERIOUS... Just watch it. Please.


SEASON 1 TRAILER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-AJdKty74M



SEASON 2 TRAILER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tZ7cg4D_z8



Thursday, February 18, 2021

Going Hard In The Desert

 

This church video sucked me in with its desert content… and I really liked it. Life is about what we set out to do… not really about if we succeed or fail at that thing. Choose hard things and try your best… don’t chose NOT to do something because you are pretty sure you wont be able to do it… Life is better when you really go for it.